Dating.com Seeks to Hire “Chief Breakup Officer”

Dating.com is seeking a Chief Breakup Officer, a full-time paid position offering approximately $3,000 per month. The role involves crafting respectful breakup messages for users who need assistance ending relationships. Applicants are asked to submit personal breakup experiences as part of the application process – although, based on the LinkedIn listing, the position may now already be filled.

The company described the position as a way to reduce ghosting and promote more considerate communication on the platform. Ghosting remains a widespread issue in online dating, with many users reporting frustration over abrupt endings without explanation. The Chief Breakup Officer is expected to provide empathetic, clear language that helps users deliver difficult news while maintaining dignity for both parties.

Dating.com emphasized that the role requires genuine human empathy and emotional sensitivity. It is positioned as a response to user fatigue with superficial interactions and poor communication practices. The company noted that while many daters struggle with how to end things, a thoughtful message can provide closure and reduce resentment.

Platforms have long faced criticism for enabling low-effort behavior and contributing to burnout. Some experts argue that features supporting better communication, including during breakups, could improve overall user experience and retention. The move also highlights a shift toward recognizing emotional labor as a valuable skill in digital dating contexts.

Whether the position will significantly impact ghosting rates remains uncertain. However, with ghosting being a significant problem on dating platforms – especially in an era where meaningful long-term connections are far more valued – it could lead to some changes that would potentially help the user base at large.