AI Use on Dating Apps Creates Growing Trust Issues

A new survey by Arrows, a video dating service powered by Tawkify, reveals that while many singles are using AI tools on dating apps, the practice is fueling concerns about authenticity and trust.

The survey of over 1,000 singles found that 54% have used AI at some point during the dating process. The most common uses are practical rather than deceptive: 50% use AI to suggest date ideas or activities, and 45% use it for messaging pointers. AI users reported going on 107% more first dates than non-users (2.9 vs. 1.4 dates on average).

However, many daters remain wary. 65% of respondents said AI makes dating feel “more artificial, not more authentic.” Over half (56%) viewed AI-written pickup lines as a bigger turn-off than bad grammar. Additionally, 58% considered using AI to write messages a form of catfishing, and 1 in 5 said they have ghosted someone suspected of using AI in conversations.

The survey also showed mixed feelings about AI-generated profiles. Respondents were 50% more likely to show interest in AI-written profiles (36%) than human-written ones (24%), suggesting AI can make profiles appear more polished or confident. At the same time, 48% said AI helps them feel more confident in interactions, with 45% using it to write profiles, 37% for maintaining conversations, and 34% for crafting pickup lines.

Despite these benefits, a significant portion of singles see limits to AI use. 17% said they would immediately end a relationship if they discovered their partner used AI to text them, and 16% said they would feel betrayed.

The findings highlight a tension in modern dating: AI can reduce friction and boost short-term confidence, but many users fear it undermines genuine connection. The survey suggests platforms must carefully balance AI assistance with preserving authenticity to maintain user trust.